Well I call it Betony, to me Wood Betony is Pedicularis. I am unaware of any CI for Stachys officinalis and the warning about pregnancy is not clear as to whether it is valid or not.
I am not aware of any information that would make it CI in that situation, then again there are no herb-drug interaction studies on Stachys.
There are many nootropic herbs (Gotu Kola, Holy Basil, Gastrodia, Chinese Polygala, Rosemary, Bacopa, etc) that could possibly be used, but what blood thinner, what BP medication ? I know-nothing about the persons constitution or energetics, so making specific recommendation is inappropriate